Whispers of the Devil, A Soul Trapped in a Trap of Jealousy

Dancing with the devil. Fourth review.
Chapter 5 Envy and Jealousy. Chapter 6 Resentment and Revenge.

Jealousy arises from a loved one, and envy is a feeling felt towards those around you who are doing better than you.
Love is originally giving the other person the power to destroy me, and comparison with others is a natural human instinct.
In the first place, without comparison with others, you cannot recognize yourself or know whether you are doing well or not.
These emotions are more like food for monsters than monsters themselves.
We generally live within the bounds of good.
The problem arises when you try to do something in response to the pain immediately.
No one wants to feel defeated, but you have to admit that you can't avoid that pain.
Envy becomes a monster when you refuse to live with the painful realization that life is different from what you thought.
The reason we avoid envy is because we avoid failure. But humans fail sometimes, and that's just the way life is.
People who harbor resentment harm others and themselves unnecessarily. Like white Americans who choose not to receive medical services themselves rather than have them expanded to benefit ethnic minorities.
The reason other people affect you is because you value socializing with them.
Being tied to social life actually means being vulnerable to the thoughts and actions of others.
No one is free from imperfection, and sometimes they become a mess on their own.
The moment I think that can't be the case, I become the most messed up. Human nature is that desire is strengthened by frustration.
The more you nag and suppress, the greater the desire to rebel.
Resentment makes people reckless. They only do things that are harmful to themselves just to harass others.
It makes you do anything you're told not to do without thinking. Even if it benefits me.
The psychology of wanting to eat something regardless of cholesterol levels if you are too forcefully told not to eat dessert is similar to this.
Kindness is not simply about the well-being and health of my life. My life must be mine, and it must be mine. But every moment we are drawn to the things we care about and move away from ourselves.
You can regain yourself when you maintain your own space in a private room. Resentment arises when someone invades that private room.
It's not wrong to feel this, but remember that you weren't made to bear the weight of your ego.
If you build your ego around conflict, you will be consumed by resentment and have nothing left after completely defeating your opponent. You can't live.
The ego must be made stronger than my enemy.

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